But, I was not going to let just ANY cup showcase itself on my bare shelf though.
So I shopped around. Back then, it seemed that options were mainly restricted to stainless (which makes sense if it is completely constructed of stainless, for its lightweight and insulating capabilities). But all those I found had too much going on: A large obstructive handle, or an (advertising) logo, or a plastic interior (???), or a leaking top or/and bottom…
I was determined not to settle for less and would share my husband’s until the right option arose. I found his at a thrift shop: steel interior, plain exterior (it had a Starbucks logo but I removed it with steel wool), great insulation, and right price… just an unnecessary large handle. Pretty close to perfection though, for just $1.50. It was worth every penny, especially considering its zero manufacturing footprint (the advantage of buying used). Too bad, it did not come with a twin (the disadvantage of buying used).
While I kept on searching, I visited the San Francisco Green Festival. And there, amidst the “granola” filled aisles, I found it: The “I am not a paper cup” (a cup with a name!). Boy did it stand out. It seemed that this object answered all my prayers. Its reusability, its ceramic and silicone material (a change from the usual stainless), its white and clean design, and its reference to modern art, a bonus! (Its name is a take on Magritte’s surrealist piece entitled “Ceci n’est pas une pipe”). In our home, where we choose to live minimally and only surround ourselves with objects that we love and that fit the décor, this cup was all I wanted in a cup.
Who knew that a simple ceramic piece could sum up our house so beautifully!
I had fallen in love with, a cup… but not its packaging: An unrecyclable clear plastic box on a cardboard stand evidently simulating that of a museum art display case. So I bought the shelf sample and welcomed it into my white house.
Gosh, did it look pretty on my cupboard shelf, a piece of art.
The next day, I was meeting some friends for a hike. Time had come to take my warm cup of tea for a walk and Zizou (my dog) too. On my way to meet them, I crossed a couple of trendy looking women, paper cup in one hand, an oversized purse in the other. And it dawned on me…
Instead of being an example of green living, was my new acquisition supporting the paper cup as a fashion accessory? Was I trying to emulate one of the stars mentioned in the Foxnews article "Hollywood’s Hottest Accessory: The Big Coffee Cup"? “The venti embodies everything about the American lifestyle,” Yanoshik said. “Not only is it trendy, but it’s big and out there. People take notice of it.”
What was I thinking going out with this in my hand! I don’t even have the purse to go with it ;). Had I purchased the ultimate wannabe accessory?
And just like that, the object that I had so much loved for one day became one that I despised. I had fallen into the trap of purchasing a sustainable product carrying a contradictory message.
Sadly, it seems that in a world where fashion is so ephemeral, the coffee cup has remained the strongest accessory since Starbucks. Only in a disposable and media focused society, driven by excessive consumerism, can such a destructive trend survive…
Last year, D Squared based a whole runway show on the “Olsen-twins chic” (Nicole Phelps called it), a big purse in one hand, the Starbucks in the other (one would think that there would be room in those large purses to carry a travel mug…). Going down the runway with a cup is one thing, but a disposable one? Couldn’t the label have taken this opportunity to come up with its own reusable design and show some environmental compassion?
People magazine is filled with stars sporting the disposable: Do you ever see a reusable one? I have yet to see one (I admit, I look at People magazine once every 3 months at some doctor’s office…but still, I have not particularly noticed a consciousness raising trend from Hollywood’s most watched individuals over the last few years).
I saw a well-known musician at Whole Foods a couple of months ago. I was waiting for the deli counter, struggling with my jar, when I spotted the public figure and watched him fill a paper cup. You would think that someone, who knows that he is being watched, would at least care to be an example and make better eco friendly choices. He even has the power to make “green” cool! Don’t ask me if I said anything to him… I did not and still regret it.
Ironically in this java driven society, and after years of searching (and many new plastic options on the market later...), I still have yet to find the perfect cup.
Although, I confess: Not finding it, has been a minimalist’s blessing… it has given me time to reflect: Do I really need one? Probably not. My favorite way of enjoying a hot tea outside the home, is with my friends at La Coppa anyways. Luckily, Mill Valley is perfect for that with its European style cafes, outdoor sitting, and ceramic cups… I can donate my fake paper cup to the local thrift store, for wannabes in need of "Olson-twins chic", to reuse.
Coffee or Tea anyone?
i have that same cup and a similar experience! I had gotten it as a gift. I use it everyday, and one day i realized that the people that come to my work probably think (from afar) that i am getting to go coffee every morning! i hadn't even thought of that before and once it dawned on me, i was so embarrassed. I dyed it with watercolor paint, and surprisingly, it stuck. almost like easter egg dye. and it no longer looks throw away.
ReplyDeleteWhenever I am in France I have to resist the urge to drink and eat out on the go, in the American fashion. It seems very conspicuous there. Perhaps your cultural heritage can come into play here in America and you can sit and enjoy your tea, as you mentioned.
ReplyDeletei went through the same thing.
ReplyDeletei spent weeks looking online for the perfect reusable coffee container. i went to wholefoods thinking they would have agreat selection and was very disapointed. and I remember seeing the ceramic cup and wondering about the package and thinking i would probably drop it at some point and it would be ruined.
i ended up buying a Oggi stainless steel, handle free, very plain container. i'm not completely happy with it but its mine now and i'm sticking with it.
-Melissa
I am also still waiting for that perfect reusable coffee cup. I found a decent one at a local coffee shop but it's not ideal (the lip is so large I have to unscrew the top to drink or risk spilling on myself). Good luck in your search!
ReplyDeleteThanks for putting all of these suggestions out on the internet. I have found them very helpful in trying to make my own life more environmentally-friendly!
What a bummer that you had to think of trendiness and Olsen twins and all that nonsense instead of just enjoying your tea and your hike! I think you took that thinking in the wrong direction. You could enjoy your cup and your tea and be happy to be setting a visible example to people who will identify with you because you're carrying a cup, and the fact that yours is clearly NOT paper (I've seen lots of those; they're easy to spot) could be a great reminder to others of an easy greener choice they could make with minimal effort. This is probably the most imitable your eco-consciousness could be to some people, so to despise it just because some asinine writer in People magazine calls the Venti the ultimate American accessory is, I think, missing an opportunity. But if you're just aiming for straight-out subversive, then I'd be glad to take your cup. Not as an accessory; just because my life is too hectic at the moment to spend much time hanging out at cafes with my friends, and I do like my warm beverages.
ReplyDeleteI've had a similar experience. I bought a reusable takeaway coffee cup (and even persuaded another frequent coffee-buyer at work to get one too – success!), and then slowly realised that I didn't want the kind of life that involved daily takeaway coffee. I wanted to sit and savour it, to have time to do it properly. And most of all, to work from home and make coffee at home.
ReplyDeleteSo my pretty little cup is sitting in the cupboard, forlorn. Perhaps I should give it away… It is still a great interim step for coffee-takeaway fans, after all.
But Bea, now I'm curious! Who's the football fan in your house – you or your husband or your sons? So cute, a dog named Zizou! :)
that's a dangerous thing in itself, of course - letting fashion and appearances dictate what we use or don't use - just as much as those who we denigrate for their keeping-up-with-the-joneses wearing of the Right Brands : in a sense, you're still victim of the 'Olsen Chic' thing if you don't just use the cup. It's a cup, it's functional. Stop caring what people think.
ReplyDeleteI too bought this cup and also no longer use it, but for different reasons. I don't think the fact that it's emulating a disposable cup necessarily equates to it celebrating disposability. I think it's just as easy to see it as making a critique of that lifestyle. Instead of going back to a time before disposable cups (by using a mason jar, for example), this cup could be seen as looking to the future as a postmodern answer to disposability.
ReplyDeleteI stopped using mine because it's incredibly heavy and only holds 8 oz. But, during the time I used it, many people noticed and commented on how neat they thought it was. I do like the idea of painting it, as another commenter mentioned. A blank canvas!
Vanessa:
ReplyDeleteWith 3 boys in the house, you guessed it, I did not have much of a say on choosing the name of the dog ;)
Amber: what a great idea to paint and redesign the cup! what a fun project...
ReplyDeleteI think I'll stick with Vanessa on this though and keep enjoying my hot beverage at home and at the cafe (once a week with my friends). I am not a fan of the Little House on the Prairie for no reason;) The less "stuff" I have, the richer I feel (the subject of a whole other article).
Our home simplifying is all about making room in our life for what matters most to us: friends family, environment. And the "I am not a paper cup" does not fit the bill, whether it's a fashion accessory, pop art, or "a great reminder to others of an easy greener choice" (Cindy). I believe that the jars, totes, bulk bags and bottles that I bring to the grocery store do the latter just fine ;)
I'm confused... It ISN'T a fashion accessory, pop art, or a reminder. It's a cup. To drink things out of. You liked it when it was just that. So why exactly did you stop seeing it that way? Only because you saw someone carrying a paper version? What does that have to do with you? Would you stop liking a well-constructed and aesthetically appealing fabric bag that was constructed similarly to a paper bag just because you saw someone carrying one (in real life or in People magazine) when you were carrying your nice fabric one? If a reusable cup is at the top of your list BEFORE you got the ceramic cup then what changed to send it to the bottom?
ReplyDeleteI spend a lot of time hauling my kids places, and waiting around on them, and having my reusable cup with my enjoyable beverage in it is a way of carving some "me time" out of a day filled with mom tasks. I also use my lidded reusable cups at home as a way of protecting my warm beverages and small children from each other. I guess my travel cups are such an important tool that I don't understand your revulsion to the whole idea of a travel mug.
Cindy:
ReplyDeleteYou are absolutely right: you obviously "don't understand [my] revulsion to the whole idea of a [fake paper] travel mug", nor my personal minimalist choice ;)
I respect your personal choice to carry one around though, and thank you for using a reusable one!
Bea, I'm not trying to be confrontational. I think I get the impulse of the minimalist lifestyle and am trying to move in that direction myself, although at times I feel like I'm creating a totally new culture all by myself from scratch. I guess I just didn't understand how you fell out of love so thoroughly and promptly. Sorry if I miscommunicated.
ReplyDeleteHi Bea,
ReplyDeleteI agree with you re: the ceramic cup and what it represents. I think if we could get back to taking the time to enjoy the quiet moments (tea at home or coffee with friends at the cafe -in a ceramic cup as you said) our society would be a lot happier. It's the "I've got to have it now" mentality that paper to -go cup represents (not to mention it's total waste). Btw, twice this week I was in shops in SF that use the "green" thing as their marketing, however, both places had employees drinking out of to-go paper cups. Sigh.....
Thank you for putting this message out there.
I just wanted to add, while I 'get' the at home vs coffee-to-go thing, haste and waste isn't always the dynamic.
ReplyDeleteI regularly visit a local chain coffee store. I purchased one of their reusable cups, and get a discount for using it. They make great coffee - much better than I make at home - and the staff are friendly and know my name. I often see familiar faces, sometimes friends.
Working from home, with kids at school, I often feel isolated, so I enjoy the quiet bustle in the background while I have my coffee and read.
these are cool- http://ww.keepcup.com.au Great colours too : )
ReplyDeleteI could really relate to this post. Sometimes I do a lot of work to find an "eco" replacement for something I use, only to then question wonder whether I need the item at all, "eco" or not.
ReplyDeleteCurious - what do you pack your children's lunches in? I'd love to see a post on that... :)
Regarding the question on kid's lunch... we have a zero waste lunch policy at my girls' school in Sausalito (New Village School) and we have all gotten very creative with containers. The Sigge people make a great rectangular aluminum box that I line with a cloth napkin and put a ramekin in for a "side" dish of some kind. We often have something warm in the Thermos brand soup containers. And... I found a killer Asian variety store in SF (corner of Clement and 6th) that has a huge selection of tempered glass containers in all different sizes with very tightly fitting lids... at a fraction of Container Store prices.
ReplyDeleteI have to agree with Cindy. I think that the fact that you only began to despise the cup AFTER becoming aware of the fact that it's a "fashion accessory" in its paper format is telling. It wasn't about minimalism until you saw that fashion blip. You enjoyed it for its functionality, for its grace and its artfulness. You had a need, and you considered the need carefully, and looked long and hard to supply the need. It wasn't a spur-of-the-moment purchase. Your discarding it, however, WAS spur-of-the-moment. I think you're succumbing to the same brainwashed mentality that people who read People magazine do, and instead of making a positive choice -- i.e., instead of choosing to ignore the stupid comment made by a stupid reporter for a stupid magazine -- you made a negative one. For people who don't have the luxury to sit at a coffee table with their friends once a week (must be nice, wish I could), a reusable cup is a necessity. Instead of choosing to ignore pop culture, and make an individual choice -- i.e., enjoying a cup that you had found, that fulfilled your requirements -- you gave in because you feared that people would think you weren't an individual. I admire and applaud your efforts to minimalize, but I think you made a mistake this time.
ReplyDeleteI am sorry, Anonymous. Again, I really do not see a "mistake" in sharing a pleasure with my friends once a week. I am sure that you too have pleasures that you indulge in once in while, it might not be a cup of tea with your friends, but it might be something else. Little pleasures as such and people's differences keep life interesting and worth living. Don't they?
ReplyDeleteI don't think Anonymous means it's a mistake to have coffee/tea with friends once a week, but he/she feels getting rid of the cup was. The post read as though drinking on the go was common for you- you mentioned really liking your husband's travel mug, wishing you had one like it, spending such a long time finding this one, etc. So, it seems as though this lil' cup filled a valid need and then you felt self conscious of it afterward for other reasons not related to your need for the cup in the first place. I can appreciate that the experience may have made you realize "you know what? I prefer doing this once a week, sitting down, with friends ANYWAY, I don't even need this cup!". But it seems the impetus for thrifting out the cup was being afraid of being seen as a trendy person glamorizing something you didn't support, not that realization of your preferences. That being said, I think we've all done that when we realized that something we have/wear/do is incorrectly representing us. Sometimes we have to do something before we realize "oh, you know what? This really isn't working for me".
ReplyDeleteIn general, I just found you blog via Huffington post, and I cannot begin to express how impressed I am with you and what you are doing! I was contemplating what this would mean in my life, and I consider myself pretty "green", but I know how much better I could do. Thank you for the inspiration, I'm happily perusing the archives :)
wow, all the "not trying to be confrontational" and "all due respects" notwithstanding, some of these and other post comments seem a bit aggressive to me. Having only recently discovered your blog, I want to thank you for putting yourself out there. From what I've read so far, you handle all the comments with grace. Thanks for a blog that has me eyeballing my trash with much more diligence!
ReplyDeleteHi Bea,
ReplyDeleteI can see myself discarding a 'not a paper cup' also. It would bother me too. I searched for almost two years to find the perfect hot tea travel container and finally settled on a mini stainless steel thermos. That for winter and a Kleen Kanteen in the summer and I'm good to go anywhere.
This talked to me, enough that I thhought I'd make a comment. ;) I found your blog throught re-nest and am spending some time now going through it. It's truly inspirational!
ReplyDeleteThis post kind of sums up what I wrote on my blog yesterday, after finding a pretty reusable cup on the net. You can't read my post since it's in swedish, but my thinking is:
On one hand it's good to have a reusable cup if you're bringing your hot beverage.
On the other hand (as my husband keeps pointing out) it will need to be reused thousands of times to compensate for the energy used for it's production.
A reusable cup, especially a ceramic one, makes the beverage taste better, so that's a reason to have one even if you'd believe that disposables are better for the environment (as my husband does!).
Better yet, sit down and drink your hot beverage and enjoy it, that's really quality use of time and that's how it tastes best.
(Regarding my husband I have to say I'm a bit envious of you. We actually even have single-use ice cube bags at home. I'd say that your way of live is unreachable for us as I'm the only one willing to change.)
I have had a similiar frustration with finding a good, reusable travel mug. I also was given the ceramic cup, but unfortunately it broke in the sink before I'd had enough time to reflect on it.
ReplyDeleteI commute to work every day, often on my bike if not on public transporation, so I have to have a cup that can be dropped w/o breaking and be turned upside down in my backup w/o spilling. I searched forever for a stainless steel mug without a plastic lid, but I just don't think they exist. The one I ended up with might not be perfect, but at least it is one less paper cup being thrown away everyday.
Hello... in case it is of interest to anyone here, there is now a mirror-finished version of the cup, with a black cap. I thought the packaging was a little wasteful--lots of plastic. But, in addition to skipping the "surrealism" effect, the silver version is elegant, easy to keep clean, and just as great an improvement upon the paper or styrofoam cups I find in many places that serve tea, even "to stay."
ReplyDeleteI just read this post while sipping coffee in my Copco white plastic coffee cup that mimics a paper cup. I commute to work and the ceramic cup would be a disaster if I dropped it on the train. It IS heavy! I show people all the time and discuss the advantages of making my coffee at home and not adding to the paper cup collection in the garbage can. Interesting note: If you watch the series CASTLE, you will see that they always use the Copco cup.
ReplyDeleteIs my cup perfect? No. Does it work for me? Yes.
(Before this, my coffee cup of choice was a stainless steel cup with the logo of a group of friends that made me smile every drink)
I also have the "I Am Not a Paper Cup" and I think it does help me be more conscious of my choices between reusable and disposable.
ReplyDeleteI have tried other to go cups and my problem was that they always had a large sharp lip and weren't as nice to drink from than the disposable coffee lids are. So for me this was a perfect compromise.
Also, when I go somewhere and set my coffee down, it makes a thunk noise that often gets notice and lets me tell other people about my neat cup.
Anonymous with the plastic cup: Please consider going back to your stainless cup (the one that makes you smile). Plastic will leach into your hot liquids.
ReplyDeletei have 3 reusable cups that all serve a fairly good purpose in my home.
ReplyDeletemy blue over sized super-chug style plastic (but almost indestructible) college mug. its good for $.70 refills of tea at the school while im trapped there. it beats buying a nasty sweetened soda/"tea" in a bottle out of the machine.
i have a pink stainless bottle on a carabiner from a friend. its good for holding all kinds of food/drinks, and its good and sealed while hiding in the purse.
i do have a grey starbucks mug. it was $27 but was completely worth it. i had one several years ago but a kid in a class of mine kicked it and broke the lid off of it. the newer one is lidless. it keeps my hot drinks hot and cold drinks cold for more than 24 hours. i found this out by mistake.
i had a friend who swore by her copco.
Hi B:
ReplyDeleteNot trying to be the devil or anything here but maybe the well-known musician usually uses a refillable cup and just forgot it one time. Maybe the-well known musician thought in such a situation it would be better not to worry about being judged and go ahead and get a coffee. As long as we are living our own best life what purpose does it serve to concern ourselves with what other people think of us. Who's perfect anyway? Just offering food for thought. (In bulk format, of course).