No, no. I am not crazy: I do not support holiday decorations being displayed at my local hardware store since September...
Nonetheless, the holidays are around the corner and my hardware store did remind me that last December, I vouched to be pro-active for this year's gift exchange. And that included letting those who will be exchanging with us know that we prefer experiences vs. more stuff. It seems early, but letting them know before they even had a chance to gather/buy objects for us, is key and all part of the “master plan” ;).
Here are some ideas, worth considering this holiday season:
GIFTS
-Offering "Experiences" in the form of a gift certificate or actual ticket, such as:
Classes at the local community college to develop a new interest
Movie ticket
Theme park season pass
Museum pass
Bowling night
Hotel night
Meal at a new restaurant
Treat to an ice cream parlor
My favorite for our kids: A year long subscription to a monthly surprise family activity (activities that I have in mind for the year, depending on our finances, include: kayaking, overnight at hotel with pool, ice skating, hiking to an overnight refuge, trampoline or indoor climbing center, science museum, gold panning in the mountains, crabbing, fishing, overnight on a houseboat, backpacking and overnight in the wilderness, fruit picking, sledding, overnight in a fire lookout, etc...) UPDATE: We call them SFA and inform you of our SFA of the month thru Twitter.
-Offering Services (your time) in the form of coupons, such as:
Professional expertise (I can offer simplifying and decluttering services for example)
Hand labor (planting a tree, painting a room for a new baby, fixing a deck, lawn mowing)
Babysitting
Services are great for kids to give (one sibling could take another sibling's chore for a period of time)
-Offering consumables in a reusable jar (to simplify, pick one project and make a large quantity):
Homemade cookies, cake mix, herbal tea, jam, pickles, sugar/salt scrub, balm, lemoncello, toothpowder (with recipe attached)
Or a bulk item (cornichons, olives, maple syrup, toffee pecans, chocolate malt balls).
Homemade candles, soap, and paper are also great “out of the jar” alternatives.
-Shopping your home: Regifting (and there is nothing wrong with that!) or giving something you already own when you know for a fact that the recipient will appreciate it. I have a dedicated drawer for that purpose, it gets filled and used all year long.
-Buying used at a thrift store or on Ebay. For the latter, make sure that the item is used by checking the “pre-owned” option in your Ebay search.
-Using the smallest gifts and bulk treats to fill stockings instead of stuffers.
-Selecting gifts that tighten family bonds (family “experiences” or used board games for example).
-Greening Santa: Santa brings only one gift per family member. It comes unwrapped because Santa cares about the environment and his gift is easily spotted among the other (family) wrapped presents. The benefits of the “one special present” go beyond the obvious...equality among children of different financial background, modesty, smaller wish lists, less stress on Santa!
-Avoiding the mall until January: Not only better for your carbon footprint (driving, new stuff purchased), but also your sanity, stress level, creativity and wallet. Challenge yourself to do without!
GIFT WRAPPING:
-Purchasing or making reusable gift bags from fabric scraps (or redesigned lone socks and pillowcases) sends out a green message to your recipient. The attached tie also eliminates the need for a loose ribbon.
-Purchasing or making Furoshiki squares (28x28) and learning some easy-to-follow tricks on how to artfully wrap in fabric. The elaborate knots and tucks also eliminates the need for a loose ribbon
-Using a gift to wrap another. A t-shirt, a sweater, a kitchen towel can wrapped just about anything and serve a double duty (a gift and wrapper in one).
-Reusing what you already have, if lacking the previous wrapping alternatives: Papers from your recycling bin (your kids can quickly paint some designs on them), children's artwork, a washed meat wrapper, newspaper or paper bag if you are still allowing these into your home ;).
-Using leaves as gift tags or anything in your recycling bin that can be cut into a small rectangle.
DECORATION:
-Reusing a potted plant that you already have or purchasing one that can become your yearly alternative to the Christmas tree. I use a tall topiary. The first year, it seemed odd (an adjustment), now we can't imagine going back to regular trees.
-Vouching to not buy yet another ornament. We rediscover our holiday decorations every year when we unpack our dedicated crate, and we always have enough!
-Making consumable decorations such as a homemade gingerbread house (with treats available in bulk) or a string of popcorn as garland (feeding it to the birds after the holidays, thanks to Dori and Val for the suggestion) for as long as the kids enjoy participating in the making.
-Using seasonal whole fruit, whole vegetables, yard clippings or leaves to adorn the table.
CARDS:
-Emailing your holiday wishes. Last year, I made plantable cards (it took me a week of work and lots of stamps), this year I will email our wishes. It's the thought and the content of the message that counts.
-Sending the cards that you do receive for reuse (as mentioned last year) to St. Jude's Ranch Card Recycling, 100 St. Jude Street, Boulder City, NV 89005. It supports a good cause too!
-Choosing recycled and recyclable materials, if you do choose to send out a card. Keep in mind that photo paper is not recyclable.
TRADITIONS:
-Supporting your Zero Waste efforts with meaningful traditions vs. the wasteful, stressful and complicated activities of the season (Zero Waste not being just about stuff management).
-Being kind to yourself by simplifying your traditions: Consider less cooking, using your everyday china and glasses if your fancy set requires hand-washing, eating out, going for a hike if weather allows.
-Being kind to others by:
1 - Being kind to yourself,
2 - Freeing a parking spot by avoiding the mall ;)
3 - Applying “Acts of Kindness” to your holiday season: participate in a homeless soup kitchen, sing carols in your neighborhood, write a Thank You card to someone whose services you appreciate (your friendly baker for ex.?)...
To hear more about Zero Waste Holidays thru a thick french accent (I hope Santa will think of getting me an accent reduction class), you can check out my recent podcast on More Hip than Hippie.
I dream of having more than an "almost Zero Waste" Christmas. With simplifying and adequate preparation, I truly believe that my dream can come true. Last year, I dreaded the season, this year I feel ready and excited to face it! Bring it on!
Any more ideas to reduce waste during this coming holiday season?
As kids, we recycled last year's received cards into gift tags. We'd cut out parts of the scene with pinking shears and mount on folded construction paper.
ReplyDeleteLater, we made tags out of the scraps of wrapping paper that are always left but you could just as well use paper saved from wrapped gifts received.
Great ideas, thanks for sharing! I am also a big supporter of buying or making handmade gifts. If you choose to purchase gifts there are lots of holiday sales where local artists sell their wares as well as etsy.com. Many of us who make things for a living try to make things that are useful, meaningful and as waste-less as possible.
ReplyDeleteLove it! We just wrapped our kid's birthday presents in pillowcases. We are hoping to start a new tradition!
ReplyDeleteGreat post Bea! I'm using Paperless Post this year -stylish online greeting cards. Here's the link for your readers. www.paperlesspost.com
ReplyDeleteI remember making decorations out of old Christmas cards at school, and this year I WILL get round to actually doing it!
ReplyDelete1.Use a jar to draw circles on of old greetings cards.
2. Cut the circles out, and score lines along the edges. (Difficult without a diagram, and I can't remember how many to do - about 6 I think - will have to experiment).
3. Fold the edges of the circles inwards, with the picture side up, so that if you made 6 lines you have a hexagon.
4. Fix a folded up edge of a circle to another circle. Keep going until you get a globe.
5. Hang in a window, from the ceiling etc with a ribbon.
I have a lot of family and frainds and I used buy each person something. But I also love giving money or gifts to family's that need to help. Things stated to add up over the years.
ReplyDeleteSo last year I wanted to do something that help people and save on my gift giving money. So I got family who needed help and gave each person a homemade card that said your Chistmas gift was given to family in need. But being me I still wanted to give them something so I got each person a bar of chocolate.
Thanks to this blog a little help from my mom and great idea I had I am going to making homemade cookies and find used Christmas hoilday box's or bags and give them out as well as helping a family in need.
Bill McKibben's book "Hundred Dollar Holiday" is a lovely commentary on paring down Christmas and keeping it meaningful. I have the MV Library copy right now, but will be returning it next week!
ReplyDeleteI've done ice skating days for my nieces and nephews, with excursion for hot chocolate and chinese food after, and I can say, it's WAY better than stuff.
ReplyDeletelove this post--thanks for getting me thinking... Agree completely that experiences make great gifts. We started a couple of years ago purchasing bowling, ice skating and movie passes for our daughter and her new family for Xmas. Hadn't thought of a hotel stay as a gift--love that idea. Thanks!
ReplyDeleteI can't wait to dig into this blog. Saw the article in Sunset. I am right there with you on so many items. It has inspired me to purge a bunch of "stuff" and bring glass jars to the grocery, etc. I already do a lot of great reuse, recycle but I am going to try harder. I don't think I can pair down my wardrobe to 7 tops but hey, 30 is better than 100. My Dad gave my kids the gift of Music Together class. I am going to try to encourage giving experiences next year. One idea (although it does involve prints) would be the gift of photography. I sell sustainable wood frames and we reuse or recycle everything in my business (of course I need to try harder there too).
ReplyDeleteI meant to also say I'm a photographer...
ReplyDeleteLove the article in Sunset and am thrilled to have it lead me to your blog. What an inspiration!
ReplyDeleteI find your blog very interesting and informative. I saw your article in Sunset magazine recently and found it very helpful and am very happy that I decided to visit. You have inspired me to do my best to help mother earth to survive. When I sit and think about it the amount of trash you have at the end of 6 months shouldn't seem strange, in fact it SHOULD be the norm. When people comment on your posts, saying how outrageous you are to think that people should be able to live this way, I am appauled. I now feel very strongly on the subject and I have you to thank for it!
ReplyDeleteHello Bea
ReplyDeleteI'm just stopping by to wish you and your family a Merry Christmas.
Discovering your blog this year was a revelation and your ideas here have really given me the impetus to make a lot of changes.
Looking forward to a new year of your posts!
Jo
Hooray Bea! Can you mention the name of the article in Sunset please? I tried to look it up online, couln't find it.
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Yea for the zero waste holidays! I wrapped my husband's gift in an old table cloth, and my daughter decorated gifts that were wrapped in recycled brown bag paper. did the "experience" gift with the cousins this year and supported the ballet. Really trying to make this a more green holiday and keep it up for the future. Thanks for the inspiration.
ReplyDeleteWe have simplified the holidays to such an extent that it is easy for our family. We do these beautiful edible items from the farmers' market. Bea, I also saw your article in Sunset and love having even more ways to implement sustainable living for my family.
ReplyDeleteLike the others I found you through the Sunset article too (it's the January 2011 issue so not on their web site yet). It was the most inspiring thing I have read all year. I'm telling everyone about you. Congrats to you and thank you for all your efforts! I'm starting today on going through the house then will start the "Refuse" step. Happy New Year.
ReplyDeleteInspired by your blog, we wrapped presents in fabric this year and it was a great experience! Now we have "wrapping" for next year all ready - and we had far less waste on Christmas. Thanks.
ReplyDeleteHi, thanks for the inspiration to purge my stuff (family, watch out!). I really enjoyed the article about you in Sunset Magazine.
ReplyDeleteWhen I was little my dad wrapped presents in anything handy and already in the house (often wall paper remnants, used and washed tinfoil, etc. He also would not kill a tree so we always had a "Christmas Branch" cut from one of the large pine trees in our yard. When we were young truthfully I really didn't understand and felt weird about it. Now I am grateful, and I really value these lessons. Thank you for reminding us that life is about living, not about stuff. :)
ReplyDeleteI am wondering if you can tell me how I can donate/recycle toys. Our local Good Will pick up location no longer accepts toys. Also, how do you recommend I help my 4 and 6 year old sons part with some of their "stuff"? I thought we lived pretty lean until I learned more about you and your family's lifestyle. In the next couple of weeks I plan to declutter even more. Congratulations on reminding us that we really don't need much.
ReplyDeleteA spa trip is a good gift. I could use a good facial and massage right now.
ReplyDeleteBea, Bea! What happened with your no-waste Christmas? When will we get an update? :) Hope you and your family are well and happy.
ReplyDeleteHi Bea,
ReplyDeleteI am a huge follower of your blog and can't wait to see what you post next. You have transformed our home and the way we approach shopping and consumerism in general. What an inspiration! I do hope you have more enlightening wisdom to share with us. Am curious how your no waste Christmas went this year and I wish you the best for the New Year!!
A website you may want to check out is www.thegiftofeducation.com. It's a gift registry for educational and college funds. I registered my kids on the site last year. I encourage all my family and friends to contribute to my children's college funds instead of buying them "stuff". I've cutdown on waste and unwanted gifts. Plus, the college funds are growing. YES!!!
ReplyDeleteHi Petty and thanks for your question:
ReplyDeleteI started a reply to your question and it got so long, I realized that it would be best writing an article on toy management so it would be easier to share with others readers. Thanks for the idea. Stay tuned! ;)
Bea,
ReplyDeleteI know the holidays have come and gone, however I wanted to share with you and everyone that there is a great company based out of San Francisco which prints customized cards that you design on the website. You can upload pictures and the image is printed onto recyclable card stock paper NOT photo paper. For those that love making cards and sending photos, you could also print photos onto card stock or regular paper. However, I agree that your e-cards are probably the lowest waste option. Also, for those that don't have time for making their own plantable cards, I have found a few web sites you can order them from, or plain stationery you can write on. I would love to have your card recipe though! I love plantable paper!
I used a dress from the local thrift store (red & green plaid), cut it up and made it into reusable gift bags for home.
ReplyDeleteKika
I grew up in a house where my dad made gifts, furniture etc... out of the now fashionable reclaimed wood. His friends just called it old barns, tables, or scraps.
ReplyDeleteA new family tradition is to take branches from downed oak trees, slice them into coaster sized pieces, drill one small hole, sand with scraps leftover from other projects, and presto a holiday gift tag that can be used as a beautiful coaster 11 months of the year and an ornament in December.
My father has also made some boxes for gifts out of scrap wood knowing that a) the boards and screws can go right back into the garage if opened carefully and b) if it takes 10 minutes to get a single present open the gifts have a greater chance of being appreciated. The caveat to this is that this packaging should only be given to those old enough to use the tools required to open them. And a sense of humor helps too.
For a few years, I took my sister to see the San Francisco Ballet's Nutcracker as her Christmas and birthday present. The seats were quite expensive (for my college student budget), and she appreciated and cherished the experience. Last year she didn't want to go so my mother accompanied me; next year if she still wants to skip going in order to make it more special when we do go, I will come up with another idea such as ice skating. The point is, since we are both young (she's quite a few years younger than me, still a kid), we have already created some memories and a special tradition. I know that when we are both adults, we will be able to have these wonderful memories and attend together with our own children =)
ReplyDeleteRe: "using your everyday china and glasses if your fancy set requires hand-washing,"
ReplyDeleteit seems to me that if you have a fancy set that you don't even pull out at the holidays, it would be a good candidate for selling, giving away or donating.
Also, for the commenter who wanted to know about what to do with old toys, do you have a community center that could use them? What about a homeless shelter or a shelter for families escaping domestic violence? Or, if you could use a few bucks, try a consignment store that specializes in children's clothes and toys. Most of them offer an option of them donating anything of yours that doesn't sell, saving you a step.
I recently stumbled upon your blog a few months ago and am delighted with it. I just started crafting an email to our family regarding holiday insanity, gift giving, and asking to not be given anymore random stuff we won't use. Reading this was a great affirmation of the email I am working on! Many thanks!
ReplyDeleteIn regards to gift giving I heard a very awesome idea on the clean bin project blog. Her dad gave her a pledge to not accept any more plastic bags for the rest of his life! That's going on the top of my wish list. Also on gift wrapping I think it would be cool to give out bulk fabric bags... or would that be too pushy?
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