Should Art be considered in the process of letting go?


Distracting visual clutter not only affects horizontal surfaces but also vertical ones. But should Art be considered in the process of letting go?

"You've inspired me to another level of desire for a simple living. However, I do enjoy art [...] There are always some that are in my closet, as I don't have the space to hang them all, awaiting their turn to be brought out" wrote one reader.

When recently discussing the subject of living simply with mostly bare walls, a friend told me that he was intrigued and he too argued: "One needs some visual pleasure (beauty) in the home, don't you think?".

I understand the attachment to Art, as I too used to fill my walls with it. I hung on to Art for reasons such as: A home has to have Art, Art shows that I am educated, Art proves that I am an artist. Today, I no longer consider these reasons valid.

As mentioned a couple of weeks ago, we now only display a handful of non-functional pieces: the occasional glass of flowers or foraged plants, the painting on our largest wall, the found animal skull in the playroom (Max enjoys science and biology) and a couple of pieces in our shared office/studio. But we're not forever-attached to any of them. I find that visual beauty abounds around us and does not need to be canvas-bound. Beauty "is in the eye of the beholder" and can be found everywhere and anywhere: In the yellow bird outside of my window, in the light filtering through my chihuahua's ears, in the new shoots sprouting from my living wall, in my kids smiles, and in simple functional items in the home.

Furthermore, I have come to realize that:
  • Showing less allows each individual piece to breathe and allows the viewer to fully emerge himself into it, without the distraction of neighboring pieces. In quantity, the individuality of each piece gets in part lost to "the competition" (the ones next to it) on a wall. But when a piece is isolated, it is "put on a pedestal" and given every opportunity to shine, inspire, and amaze.
  • Overtime, many pieces lose their appeal. After the initial excitement, they lose their visual novelty and get forgotten (you'll walk by them, and won't notice them anymore): Sometimes due to a switch in decorating style or frame, sometimes due to relocating (to a darker corner for example), sometimes due to a fading trend: Remember when the velvet paintings were cool? Pieces (along with their frames) as such can however interest collectors/museums or be reused by artists and made into "new".
  • Walls with windows, do not need art: A window can be a frame displaying beautiful nature, a living piece of art.
  • The lighter the load, the easier the move. Moving Art is no easy task.
  • A functional item can often fill or balance an "empty" area: Relocating a live plant, a chair or a lamp will often do the trick.
  • Supporting local artists is an honorable reason to collect, supporting ZeroWaste artists is even better, when purchasing Art, look for Art that is 100% compostable or made from 100% recycled material.
We have not missed any of the "beautiful" pieces that we used to own and have sold. We now rather find "beauty" in living simply.

I don't expect many of you to agree with me here... What do you think: Shouldn't Art be considered in the process of "forming better shopping habits, sharing with others, or making Zero Waste manageable" (as mentioned in this previous post)?

82 comments:

  1. I am struck by your comment "the lighter the load, the easier the move." That was reason we finally donated our enormous book collection. Make no mistake: my family LOVES to read! But books are extremely heavy, and they cost a fortune to move.

    Now, rather than frequenting bookstores, we've made it a priority to find communities with exceptional public library systems. Visiting once a week and keeping an eye on the "coming soon" announcements has allowed us to read more than ever without cluttering up our house. And we are saving money, too!

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  2. I really agree that walls with windows don't need art. I have such a beautiful view from my bedroom that I would rather look outside than at art. I also like the idea that giving art "breathing space" lets them shine. I have way too much art that I don't like. The few pieces I do like are being lost in the clutter. I just feel guilty getting rid of it:(

    Also, I have an especially hard time getting rid of my own art that I don't like. I've done a lot of "experiments" and "learning pieces" that I don't like. At the same time I hate the idea of them gathering dust at the goodwill. What do you do with art you have created and no longer like? (If you have any you don't like;)) Also, as a side note, I'm curious what kind of art you do. Did you paint the painting on your largest wall. It's beautiful!

    In four months I'm headed off to college and will be forced to de-clutter probably for my own benefit. Moving into a dorm room with two other girls is going to be the ultimate reducing challenge. Your last few posts have helped me to realize that this isn't a bad thing. It will be a freeing experience I hope.

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  3. I agree that collecting art can be like collecting anything else in that it can drive you to consume more, and have more to dispose of when you grow tired of it. I've also seen homes with just way too much on the walls to where it is overwhelming rather than pleasing to the eye.

    However... I really enjoy having things on my walls, I just try to keep it simple and tend to choose things like mounted clips to hang my children's art work (so that it can be changed out), or an art wire to the same purpose. I also enjoy displaying family photos that can be changed out.

    Through our simplifying process we've held on to very little traditional wall art for many of the reasons you stated, but I doubt my walls will ever be bare :)

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  4. OK, I'm chuckling to myself because I sort of got forced into taking down all of my art, trinkets and other decorative items about a year ago when my new kitten got his adult body before his adult temperament, and started knocking it all on the floor. Seriously, that cat would jump 6 feet in the air and swat pictures right off the wall!

    The adorable (yet challenging) Smoky Bear is now 2, and getting a little bit less crazy, so I've been able to put a few things back up. But along the way I decided that the vast majority of it was just clutter, and I gave most of it away. The stuff I kept is all personal... photographs of people (and cats) that I love, and one or two other pieces that have real sentimental value to me.

    I've been watching the TV show "Clean House" for inspiration in my decluttering project - over 8 car loads have gone now and there are 6 big boxes in my living room waiting for a FreeCycler to pick them up in the morning - Woo Hoo! While I find the show fun and helpful, when they reveal the newly decorated rooms at the end I'm always left with the feeling that I'm looking at a hotel room. I mean the art looks nice I guess, but it just looks so impersonal... like a decorator picked it out to go with the color scheme (which they did). Guess I just don't see the point of that sort of stuff.

    There are a few things that I'm having trouble with. I have a few friends who are artists who have given me pieces over the years. It's not that I don't like their stuff, I do... it's just that it feels like clutter. One, in particular, is fond of making every sort of cat trinket imaginable and gifting them to me. I don't really want to keep it, but I don't want to hurt her feelings. Any suggestions?

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  5. I used to put all sorts of things on my walls until I re-painted every room with color...(I know: the opposite of you ;-)...and all of a sudden I didn't want to cover all that color up! At least, not with *much*. My walls tend to have only one painting or thing- I am a musician and hang *some* my instruments on the walls as part of the decor-poer side, and several walls are left bare so as not to over-crowd. In my case, the colored walls make the outside windows- which I agree are *also* a work of art* "pop": specifically, when I moved into my Seattle house, ALL the rooms were painted grey, with grey carpeting. In Seattle! What were they thinking? Of course I covered all that depressing grey up with a lot of visual color! Now, with the walls different colors: yellow in the living room, peach in the dining room, pale green in the upstairs bedroom and a goldenseal color in the guestroom, there is no need for more than one piece of well-placed art per wall... or even less! P.S. In reference to the last post: in Seattle, colored walls are a necessity for me. However, were I to loive in the trees of Mill Valley like you, or heck, the trees of the San Juans, or the Cascades, I would have the white walls you do for the same reasons yo do: light reflection! The woods are gorgeous- yet can make the interior of a room dark.

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  6. Whoops! Sorry for the typos in my last comment- it's late- but I'd like to add that as long as the art on my walls still gives me an emotional lift- it is not clutter to me. The moment I look at it and it doesn't lift me, I will know it is time for a change- a letting go- of whatever that piece is. So far, since repainting in 2005, the pieces I chose to put up still give me joy.

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  7. As a professional artist ofcourse I don't totally agree with you...
    Real, good art does not loose its appeal!
    And if all the old masters had made their work out of 100% compostable material we would not be able to enjoy their work now, arthistory would be non-existing?
    I do however use only natural ingredients in my work for all the right reasons, I choose to make my own frames, my own canvas and my own undergrounnd and paint out of natural pigmentpowder, water and eggyolk (tempera)
    I agree with you that a piece of art should be given room to breathe.
    I think you should be careful to generate here...ofcourse the Ikea-poster will bore you in the end, ofcourse that painting made after three weeks of hobbyclasses will not be good enough forever, ofcourse if you pick a piece of art because it fits the colour of the sofa it will not be hanging there forever.
    If you choose a piece of (real genuine) art for the right reasons, it will be in your life and your home, speaking to you touching your soul every time you pass, and it will do so for as long as it's yours..for all the right reasons
    Dorieke

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  8. I could not disagree more. Art is the only visual record we have of civilization. While you can appreciate a stunning sunset for a few minutes by watching it happen, you will remember it forever in your photograph album.

    Perhaps you can't appreciate that album now, but when you are over 60 and your children have children that photo may remind you it was taken on the evening you and your husband decided you were ready to become parents.

    We are the sum of our experiences. Much of my artwork is inherited, and I grew up with it. It is inextricably tied to memories of my parents, grandparents, siblings and extended family. It is not only lovely to look at, it jogs my mind in pleasant ways.

    What, besides a clean slate, will you leave your grandchildren to remember you by?

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  9. I completely agree with you that like all other objects in our homes, artwork should be consciously selected because we love it and believe the pieces we choose will add value to our lives - never thoughtlessly or to make a house look like a hotel or a catalog. Most of my artwork is photography of family, friends, and places we've been and loved. I do change it reasonably frequently as people grow and we keep adding babies to the family - but it seems to go with whatever sofa is in the room. :)

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  10. I agree that less is more and quality over quantity when decorating but I do have to disagree with some points: I have always believed that art is anything that inspires an emotion. A carbon copy of a beautiful landscape doesn't inspire much emotion in me personally but I choose my art because I have an emotional tie to it. Whats the point of a piece of art that doesn't do anything other than cover a wall? I enjoy my emotional ties to the art in my life. And those living in cities may have a window framing a view of a brick wall...
    I don't think art should be composted but maybe the "stuff" sold as decoration should be- ie posters from Ikea.

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  11. I think art is a lot like your blog here. A few images which carry deep meaning, help to tell your story.

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  12. Here is a quote from Rikyu (1522-1591), Zen Master and creator of the Japanese Tea Ceremony.

    Just a simple shelf,
    hanging from the corner wall
    by a plain bamboo.
    All we need in such a world
    are these artless simple things.

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  13. OK - I'm gonna play Devil's advocate with the family photos for a moment here... (this is for myself as much as it is for others, since I've got plenty of them on my walls.)

    There is a way in which keeping lots of memories around (even if they're wonderful memories) can keep you stuck in the past and make it harder to move forward in your life, or to even fully experience the present.

    I notice it every time I walk past one particularly beautiful photo of one of my cats who has passed. She's been gone for seven years now, and while I treasure the beautiful photos and memories that I have of her, there's also a sense in which it tugs me out of the present moment and makes me less mindful of what's going on right here, right now. I would never get rid of the photos, but sometimes I wonder if having them watching over me all the time is helpful or not.

    No conclusions here... just something to think about.

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  14. Initially I thought the title of this post was "Should Art be considered the process of letting go?" ... I think the answer to both questions is often yes, depending on the creator and the beholder.

    I've never purchased Art because I had to have something to go on the walls, or because I thought it made me look educated (the stuff that interests me doesn't make me look educated at all anyway). We've only ever purchased and hung/placed objects that delight us to look at. I have a triptych of b/w photos of giraffes making strange faces with their long tongues stuck out - it's the first thing you see when you enter our house, and is one of my favorite visual messages: WARNING this is a very silly place, full of laughter.

    And I'd argue over the fleeting joy found in Ikea posters - I've got an Ikea poster of wild flowers that I bought to hang over the bed where my dad sleeps when he visits every year -he always remarks how pretty it is, reminds me that it's still hung upside down (I do that on purpose to some stuff, to see who notices, and sometimes it looks more interesting that way), then tells me about some of the flowers in it (he's a naturalist at heart). It's a ritual that I love and cherish every time I see it, even when he's not here, despite the fact that it cost me $5 and is mass produced.

    However I also recognize that when we move (probably in the next two years or so), we will opt not to take most of it with us. It serves us here and now, but I look forward to letting it go to provide others with joy when we move on. And I have no doubt that in the future we will find more objects and images to inspire us in our home(s), spark wonderful conversations, and remind us of new happy memories we have yet to make.

    I think each person/family will adorn their habitat with what pleases them, be it simple shadows or a single color, to the other extreme - I had a friend who was constantly painting landscapes and objects and writing poetry on all her walls, covering old works with new almost as soon as it dried - she said it was so much easier than being tied to a canvas and primer would cover it all easily one day anyway.

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  15. I think if you really like something, keep it. It should be really worth it to put a hole in the wall.

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  16. I do have art on my walls, and I have a few pieces I would be unwilling to get rid of - but I don't consider art to be un-touchable. Like everything else, when I grow tired of it or stop noticing it, I often gift it. I keep pieces that make me stop and smile, or feel calm, or that do something for me - and they may not be doing anything for the walls or the room. But if I feel them, they stay!

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  17. I read in an article in “Dwell” a couple years ago about an aspect of good modern design being about not cluttering up the interior and allowing your windows to be a kind of artwork showcasing the outdoors. Of course, that only works well if you have pleasant things to see outdoors.

    Our house is fairly small and has an open floor plan, so we have minimal wall space. We have a bit of art, but not much (one of my husband’s original abstract paintings is the main piece). I like to have some color, since we live in the Midwest and the long months of winter can be a little too gray for me. But we love our large windows that showcase the lake we overlook, the small nature preserve on one side, and a beautiful old shelter belt on the other. In the spring, summer and fall, there’s a lot of color coming into our house from the outdoors.

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  18. Certainly everyone is entitled to their opinion on this topic, and I appreciate them ALL--from the hoarders to the minimalists.

    I appreciate how you have encouraged your readers to think minimalism regarding art. I also like your personal somewhat minimalist approach. I think we could all stand to pare down a bit in this regard. There is certainly some art I am not attached to. Similarly, there is certainly some art in my home which is more visual clutter than visually pleasing.

    I think we need to make the distinction here between art and family photos--the latter are memories. I would personally rather keep digital copies of family photos (physical copies are clutter for me), but I do believe in keeping them. Art is a separate category altogether.

    Keep challenging us and pushing the envelope!

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  19. I would say there is a happy medium for everyone. Your minimal style is probably not for everyone, but cutting back for most of us (me included) is a worthy and noble goal. Although I don't think I'll ever be able to mirror your lifestyle, I do love to read about it because it inspires me to make changes that bring me closer to something that is right for my family and still is achieving more of a zero waste lifestyle. Thanks!!!!!

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  20. I never thought of windows as framed piece of work. It is absolutely true; if art pieces are conversation pieces then I hope that my windows looking towards my backyard become a mouth full. Our plum and peach trees are full of fruits and it is so rewarding when you get to share that with those who come and visit. It does forces guest to step out of the house to the outdoors and talk about nature and enjoy its beauty. 
    Ximena

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  21. I have been going through a purging process over the last two years. Every few months, I shed useless possessions that I have been carrying around (some since I was a little kid). I used to be so attached to THINGS, and it has felt wonderful to declutter my life.

    But there's one thing that I am having a hard time deciding about.

    My mother (who passed when I was in High School) created art pieces with wood. They are amazing carvings and took amazing talent and time. I have never once considered getting rid of them because she created them.

    But, frankly, they are cluttering my walls and SO not my style. I don't have anyone to pass them onto, so what do I do with them?

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  22. Thank you for this post :) I think there is yet another distinction to be made here, and that is between art and decoration. I strongly believe that art has its place in the home as well as producing culture, so long as that is what we're talking about. Art work that is engaged in historical and contemporary social dialog contributes enormously to move culture forward and ask people to think and engage in a critical manner.

    This type of art work is also a financial investment for collectors who carefully follow artist's careers and research their work. Such purchases are not made lightly and are later often generously donated to museums or go out on loan to exhibitions.

    There is also a great deal of contemporary art that isn't necessarily found on the walls of homes or on top of pedestals. There is video art, performance art, and relational aesthetics, to name a few. These are great ways to experience and enjoy art with little to zero waste :)

    For those who are not collectors, the work of emerging artists can be quite affordable. Visiting galleries and doing some research on emerging artists who are engaged in the contemporary art climate are good ways to make informed, long term purchases. Many of these galleries even have facebook pages that make it easy to follow their work, and press releases and reviews to help inform your decisions.

    If art work is thought of in this way, with people making a select few informed, long-term purchases, decoration doesn't even enter the conversation and neither should waste. It is decoration that adheres to trend and style that ends up in our dumpsters.

    Thank you Bea :)

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  23. Yes, I do think that the process of letting go can be considered an Art; it's something that you practice on a daily basis. But I also agree with many of the posters here - Art should be chosen consciously and purposefully. As with most everything, too much of it can be overwhelming...I'm choosey about the pieces I put on my wall - thus, there are few of them. Art also tends to get expensive (and rightly so), so I have a few pieces from friends and from peers in college. I think Art is like everything else - if what you have in your home feels balanced with the space and seems to compliment it, then great. If it feels overwhelming - let some of it go. If you want to leave it to your grandkids, great - but don't expect that they will love it the same as you did. If you really, really want a piece to be memorialized, have it known that if the grandkids don't care for it, you would like the art to be donated to a museum or sold & the money donated to a charity.

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  24. As with other artist's postings here, I do not entirely agree with you. It is important to truly KNOW what art is before you lump everything visual into a single box! While a beautiful view can be very appealing and certainly fluid, a lot of art is an expression of feelings even if it is representational. True art is so much more than what you describe here and the thoughts of it being tossed out with the dishwater leaves a great deal to be desired and can even be offensive.

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  25. Bea, what about beautiful, exquisitely made, but rarely used or displayed items made by one's own mother? Wonderful fabric creations -- eg, a perfect queen-size hand stitched (and, significantly, hand quilted) wedding-band quilt, a gift from my mother on my wife's and my marriage some three decades ago? What about her crib quilt for our son, some two decades ago, showing her mastery in her first try at trapunto? What about her cross-stitched small wool rug, which we have hung as art in the past but, now, store with the quilts in an old, so-called hope chest?

    Despite the expertise and mastery my mother (ever the perfectionist, a legal and medical secretary during the post-war days when women didn't work outside the home) has demonstrated in these pieces, all made expressly for me and my wife and our son, they can have but scant value on the open market as artwork. Rather, they are family treasures, hallowed in a way, well worth carefully preserving in honor of our antecedents -- even though we seldom use or display these gifts today. Are they just dead weight, impeding our attainment of modern goals?

    Have you ever received such gifts from your mother, your husband's mother, or other family members? If so, did you sell them or donate them, too, like any other piece of art which grew tiresome?

    If so, Bea, I'm not saying you and your family are wrong to have done so, but I'd have to offer that something about such a disposal of such priceless gifts (of the significance I'm describing, not trinkets or novelties and nothing poorly made or ugly) just doesn't sound right, either. Surely, in our zeal to simplify and unclutter our lives, goals I fully support, we can still preserve respect and honor for our deceased ancestors by safeguarding the conscious, deliberate, creative gifts they have made for us and us alone. Surely. No?

    I would love to know, if you've dealt with similar gifts, how you have handled them, once you've chosen to no longer use or display them.

    Max

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  26. This reminds me of a movie I recently saw, called Summers Hours (L'Heure d'ete), directed by Olivier Assayas, about the passing down of art and heirlooms from one generation to the next, and the complicated relationships and values we assign to these objects.

    Personally, I enjoy art that is functional, as many comments in your previous posts have also articulated. A beautiful vase displays fresh-cut flowers, its 'appeal' refreshed with each new bouquet. The piano fills our home with classical music and reminds me of the loved ones who gave me this wonderful musical instrument. A handwoven oriental rug serves as an indoor play area for the kids and a cozy place to sit and read.

    However, I also agree that these items can quickly turn into bric-a-brac that becomes more of a burden to maintain than a pleasure to enjoy. I think the key here is balance; appreciating art for what it is, while not becoming so attached to any object that it takes over your life. For me, this means re-evaluating items deemed 'priceless,' that I have taken pains to preserve, and that have been been relegated to a life displayed behind glass rather than enjoyed by the people who own them.

    Bea, I think your posts serve a great purpose, awakening us to the complex relationship we have with our stuff. While I may share a more moderate view of these concepts, you certainly have enlightened me to a new way of looking at the items I choose to surround myself with. I applaud you for this, and look forward to reading more of your intriguing ideas.

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  27. Today I finally worked up the courage to go to the meat counter and have the butcher place my order into my glass jar. It looks beautiful in my fridge. Thank you for keeping such an inspiring, provoking, and gorgeous blog for me to learn from.

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  28. Anonymous Max - I can't help but comment in regards to your comment about the handmade quilts and rugs. I, too, have handmade quilts from my grandmother, but choose to use them. In doing so, I am wrapped in the love given by my grandmother. What purpose does storing these items in a hope chest serve? It sounds like the fine china that never gets used and just sits behind closed doors. Again, what purpose does that serve? Just to say that you have something, whether it be a quilt,a rug, or fine china? Use these items and enjoy them and the time, love, and effort that went into creating these handmade gifts. To me, it seems much more sensible to use these items daily and be reminded of the love that went into creating the gifts than to store the items away with much less interaction. I am sure many days go by without much of a thought to these items stored away. Wouldn't using these items and thinking about them (and being grateful for them) daily be much more purposeful and honoring of your mother? I am sure that my grandmother would appreciate me being able to use and enjoy her gifts, rather than having them stored away for years. Again, what purpose does storing away these items have? Choose to use these items and live with the love daily.

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  29. The Story of a Quilt: Made by my Great Aunts and given to my Grandmother who wrapped it in tissue and eventually passed it on to my Mother who kept it wrapped in the cedar chest and gave to me as a wedding present. I have always believed you should use those things that you love and that quilt was on our bed for many years we will be married 47 years this summer. It is now in tatters and will not be passed on to the next generation but I feel that at last it has been used,loved and enjoyed for the purpose it was made!

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  30. I discovered your blog yesterday + have just now finished reading through your archives. I started on this path nearly 2 years ago + for all the critics (I personally find that people not only need to defend their lifestyle as if my living like this is a judgment on them, but others try to catch me in a “gotcha” situation), it's hard to get them to understand the sense of relief once you are able to let go of ALL THAT STUFF! On my first wave of getting rid of things I had so much stored in boxes that I never looked at, + I was able to make enough money to give my boyfriend the best birthday present ever- good seats to see his favorite singer in concert. He was shocked when I presented the gift AND (between you + me) it barely made a dent in my newly bulked up bank account.

    I am still working at it at a level that suits my lifestyle + availability without adding stress. I will definitely agree with you about saving money. For the first time in my life (I am 39) I actually have money left in my account before my next paycheck + am able to contribute not only to a 401-K, but to a rainy day/ emergency savings account AND I pay extra on my mortgage every month.

    Thank you for putting your self out there, your blog is wonderful.

    p.s. Thank you for the link to stopping credit cards apps, that has been my last challenge

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  31. it is late. and for now i seem to be the last one to comment! i agree and disagree with everyone. everyone in my family is dead and gone except my brother. i even lost my beloved little 'man in fur,' Zekey a few months ago. the vet office gave me his doggy ashes in a beautifully handmade wooden box from poland. i only just put it away in the closet today. still not ready to not keep him, but realizing that seeing that little box everyday was only making me sad. i am not a sentimental person. i loved my husband with all my heart, but there are no pictures of him in my rooms, nor of my family. everyone is so indelibly etched in my mind that i can conjure up their faces, voices and presence anytime i want them. i love the play of sunlight and shadow against my vanilla colored walls throughout the day. that is my art. and at night, lamplight casts a soft glow and i feel only cozy and loved, by my plain little house and all the friendly "ghosts" that loved me and were such a part of my past life, not my current one. i prefer to live in the current one, fully. but i do understand that some people simply cannot let go of the tangible "things" that still represent all those people. it's not good. it's not bad. it just is. we're all different.
    and when the time comes, even if it's just like the little box of ashes that was Zekey, you'll know when it feels right to just enjoy the light.

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  32. Hi Bea, thank you for all of your inspiring tips on how to reduce waste in everyday life --they have really opened my eyes to my own habits and helped me move toward a less wasteful life.

    This is one area I do disagree with you on. I come from a family of artists. I can't imagine who my loved ones would be if they didn't create their own art--be it paintings, music, or rebuilding custom antique cars (my dad.) I do believe in being selective with art, but I will never give it up. I think artists can strive to be less wasteful in the process of creating, but no one should feel guilty for having art in their lives. Plus, remember not all of us have windows that look out onto beautiful nature! Not all of us have homes that are beautiful. Some of us live in just a step up from squalor, really, and art is something that helps us to dream.

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  33. I didn’t realize the emotions people assigned to their things. From some of the comments here, I see how the seeds of packrating and hoarding begin. For some, so many material items have so much value, made for them by a close relative, given to them by a mother or father, pictures of family members; and, to many, the preservation and display of these items proves their love, devotion and remembrance of the gift bearers.

    But when is enough, enough? How much do you keep? How much do you accept? Is it ever ok to refuse?

    My mother ‘treasures’ every trinket, knick-knack, bric-a-brac she has ever been given by anyone. She assigns so much emotional value to these items, they have taken over her home. Her house is packed full of knick-knacks, books, vinyl records, figurines, wall hangings, etc. All of these items are crammed onto shelves, corners, and ledges: a cacophony of bric-a-brac, collecting dust and filling the spaces of her home with suffocating chaos.

    Personally, I do not like to assign emotion to material items. I try to keep it simple.

    Keep your hand knitted blankets that your mother lovingly made for you….but ask yourself, when is enough, enough?

    It’s a slippery slope between collector and packrat.

    :)
    Jessica

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  34. I love this blog. Focusing on eliminating waste has led to many positive changes in my life. I love that you are are asking difficult questions and forcing us to think about our stuff. However, I wonder if the real question is: What do you need to do to not feel encumbered by your stuff? For some of us, it might be to eliminate visual distractions, to others, the visuals might not be considered a distraction. Probably everyone reading your blog is intrigued with the freedom that goes hand-in-hand with zero waste, but how that looks might have endless possibilities.

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  35. The smugness and self-righteousness of the "Everything must be Spartan" crowd never fails to amaze me.

    I recycle, I reuse, I don't buy what I need, but I am NEVER going to empty my walls and shelves just to court the approval those with what IMHFO is a class-based aesthetic opinion. And if you think it has nothing to do with class, you need to take a basic sociology course.

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  36. Art will always be my one problem with minimalism. My home is small, 560 sq feet, which makes my husband and I minimalists by default. Most of our art was created by my husband and other family and friends, and luckily, I actually really enjoy it. We are planning to move aboard a sailboat, and the art will be the one thing I will store until we move back to land.

    I think the issue of class is interesting, and hits close to home because I know that I will probably never live in a home that is designed or remodeled to fit a certain aesthetic, especially a modern one. Homes like that are not in my budget, as would be remodeling an existing home to successfully achieve that style. If you've got to work with what you've got, then a piece of art can go a long way to make a place more comfortable and beautiful.

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  37. While I think your zero waste goals, as they apply to reducing consumer waste are commendable, I think your recent posts are veering into a scary area.

    Your total rejection of objects is like consumer anorexia (I did not coin that term). I get the feeling that you would be happy to die owning nothing - living in a white box with no objects. This is not good for your kids - you have taken something good too far.

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  38. I believe in using or enjoying whatever I have. I believe in owning “stuff” as long as its truly useful and enjoyable. The “good dishes” that my mom would save for that 1 special holiday a year… I use quite often. I don’t use them for everyday because then the total specialness of them and the event would truly be “everyday”. But I do use them much more than that 1 time a year. When they are added to the table, everyone knows that it is an extraordinary special event or holiday. Quilts! I’m a quilt maker. Quilts should be used and enjoyed. They get softer and feel better with age. Use them, enjoy them, take a moment to look closely at the stitches and the hard work involved with making them. They are a form of art… just not necessarily placed on a wall (although they could be!). But use them. If they are just folded in a closet, and never touched, the fold lines will become a permanent crease mark over time… so use them…as a car blanket, a picnic blanket, a “going to a chilly football game” blanket. I recycle, I reuse and repurpose. I compost. I refuse. I refuse and reduce by thinking first, purchasing “maybe”. I think about whether I truly need something before I purchase it. Yet, I have meaningful art on my walls that I would never discard. I have quilts on the beds that have meaning to me as well. The books I have decided to grace my bookshelves are ones that I reread often and thoroughly enjoy over and over. The rest I have donated. My biggest project this past month was going through photos. I went through each photo box. If I didn’t remember who the person was, the photo was discarded. If it was a duplicate, I got rid of it. If it was of a bad memory or a bad “person experience”, I got rid of it. I now have a more streamlined collection of photos but personally I wouldn’t dream of getting rid of all photos for the sake of total minimalism. When I’m 90, sitting on the porch in my rocking chair, I want to be able to look through the remaining photos and relive the good people and times in my life. I want to be able to share photos and stories with the young ones in my family like my elders did with me. Julia Child once said “moderation in moderation”. I believe that I have found a happy medium.

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  39. Bea,

    You are wonderful to allow people to comment on your blog. As I read through a few of the comments, I read words I would qualify as rude and personal attacks.

    Thankfully, these rude, negative comments, (which (IMHFO) are downright nasty and vicious) are the minority.

    Oddly enough, they are usually always from Anonymous. I mean, if a person is going to be so bold, they should at least sign their name.

    So, Bea, here is an anonymous THANK YOU for your courage to share your personal life with the world.

    Job Well Done!!!

    Your kids are lucky to have a mom like you!

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  40. I would be interested in knowing how folks handle heirlooms. There are a few pieces that I truly love, have memories, and have a place in my home. But... I can only have so much... and I would want to find meaningful homes for the remaining items vs. the possible trash heap. If anyone has any advice on handling heirlooms, I'd love to hear from you!

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  41. I know if you want to get rid of antique heirlooms there are a lot of auctions you could give them to. You could also send them to an antique store. You might even get paid for them.

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  42. I agree that some of these posts go beyond contributions to the discussion and become harsh judgements of lifestyles that seek to be minimal. This blog has been opened for conversation surrounding issues of waste, not taste. No one should be here to judge. We are all lucky to have someone as wonderful and open as Bea to provide us with such a forum for thoughtful discussion. Let's not fill it with reactionary negativity.
    -Kristen

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  43. I love the idea of "moderation in moderation" It goes along with Buddha's philosophy of the middle way which is finding a balance between extremes of sensual indulgence and self-mortification.

    I think that Bea is definitely not going to the extreme of sensual indulgence. Nor do I believe she is in a lifestyle of self-mortification. She has everything she needs and a loving family. I do not think that "consumer anorexia" is necessarily a bad thing. In fact it is a good thing for the Earth and for really focusing on the good things in life such as love and good quality time. I do not think that it is bad for her children! Her children have everything they need and more. I think that it is evident in this blog that Bea loves her children and that is the key ingredient to being a good parent.

    I can be sad in a room full of things, but I can't help but be happy in a room full of people I love.

    Our society is built on consumerism. By accumulating so many things, it causes people to work long hours, be stressed, and not have time to enjoy life. Bea, I think you are doing a fabulous job freeing yourself from the frenzy of collecting objects, but you are also helping your children be free as well.

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  44. ps. I love that picture of your dog. A happy dog means a happy home:) The happiness of a home free of things is evident in your picture of your dog jumping up and wagging his tail!

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  45. I think Bea wants us to question ourselves and our own habits rather than question hers. She has found happiness in what she does and is trying to share that joy of helping the world with us.

    I'll admit, at first I was defensive. My thoughts were, "I love my art. It has meaning to me. People made this for me. How will getting rid of things help the environment?" But then, I realized it was weighing me down. I feel guilty about getting rid of it, but I don't want it anymore. I can't wait to have a fresh start where I can be in control over what I put on my walls and shelves (only things I love from now on). Every time I see my own artwork I notice its flaws and it brings me down. People give me art that I don't even like. Also, if I go to a gallery I feel guilty if I don't buy something. But these are not good feelings or habits! Now I have the desire to help the environment as a final push to get me to declutter, refuse, and reduce.

    I think before posting negative comments, you should wait a day, or a week... or forever and think about how Bea's ideas could make a positive influence in your life because Bea is obviously so happy about what these things have done for her that she is willing to put time into sharing it with us.

    THANK YOU Bea, for giving me a wakeup call and a fresh start. It was a hard pill to swallow but now you have freed me from guilt and attachment about THINGS. Now I have work to do de-cluttering!

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  46. Dear Bea,
    I write in reference to the question of how to dispose of family heirlooms. I got all my mom's stuff, some of it quite valuable. I asked all my neices and nephews of they wanted anything. No one did. Things have been going to a local high end charity shop where all proceeds go to cancer survivors. The shop only takes the good stuff and they ask good prices. If no one in the family wanted the heirlooms, then the best solution for me was to see that any money gained went to a good cause. I hope this ideas helps.

    Mark

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  47. I wrote about her "consumer anorexia" and I was not trying to be mean or rude. I think there are many great aspects of what her family is doing, but I think she has taken it to an extreme that is unhealthy for her kids.

    Yes, they are cared for and loved, but the rejection of any new items really limits their creativity, ability to adopt a new hobby or sport. What if one of her sons wanted to take up quilting (yes, I know they are boys and not likely to do so, but bear with me)? Can you imagine how scraps of fabric and thread would bother Bea? I imagine her skin crawling at the thought of it.

    The house fire that she experienced earlier in life clearly informed her choices. If she did not have kids, I would not make these comments. Raising them to not be wasteful is great - raising them to fear possessions is quite another.

    If my being anon makes you uneasy - call me "Kay". Happy now?

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  48. Well, Kay, You have no idea how that conversation goes in their home.

    You are making an assumption with no basis, unless you happen to know Bea and her family.

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  49. I read the interview w/ your son and also watched his ZW lunch presentation. I was amazed both times at how well spoken your son(s) were. I really noticed as I read the interview how your son mentioned several times, "nobody's perfect". It seemed very healthy. My girls are just about to turn 2 & 4 and I am really beginning to raise them differently than my friends. It takes a lot of courage and of course, I can't be positive this is the "best" thing ... just going w/ my own intuition and beliefs. But if we want some drastic change it begins with us and then extends to our children. Of course, as kids get older they get to make their own choices.

    Onto the subject of the post: I've been going thru every drawer, shed, and pantry cleaning out clutter. The 20 years, I've been out on my own my walls have mostly been bare -- not out of belief but just b/c I haven't found the art that speaks to me. Now that I am going thru and minimizing the rest of my life I am really craving art. We are fortunate to have beautiful mountain views and sunset views but I am still looking for some beautiful pieces to add to our life. So I guess I am exchanging Costco impulse buys for art galleries in the near future. Not a bad trade? Who knows, it still may take me another 20 years to find the art that speaks to me ... or maybe I'll be framing my daughter's art work instead -- seeing her paint and the paintings themselves seems to light up my world right now.

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  50. In response to ‘If my being anon makes you uneasy - call me "Kay". Happy now?’:

    By reading your post it seems you live in the household???
    By your comment suggests being ‘outside the box’ is not for you. But that is fine, to each their own.
    **Luv the new word…have to add it to my list…

    In my opinion, making a ‘rash comment’ that by ‘rejection of any new items really limits their creativity, ability to adopt a new hobby or sport’ and ‘is unhealthy for her children’ goes unfounded.
    Your comment suggests that ‘commercial goods’ is what makes people creative. A bold statement that lacks facts…

    In ‘real life’ everyone has to make choices.
    Teaching children on how to ‘think’ about and ‘not to waste’ money is better for them now than later on in life.

    It’s amazing how many people fall into the ‘consumer trap’. Have to have everything. Most stuff is cheaply made to break so consumers have to buy it again [aka company profits].

    For example, I don’t buy new board games. I don’t believe in wasting my 20 to 40 dollars on a new game when I can buy the same game for a 1.99 at the second hand store. Especially, when I know it will only be played a few times. Another is buying a suit or dress that I will only wear maybe twice.

    The point is by giving your child alternatives, you’re teaching them to be creative with their choices along with freeing up their time to be creative in other areas of life.

    On another note, how do you know what is good for their children unless you are their parent.
    We, as in you, I and others have no business making any such comments.

    Remember, this is blog on green suggestions. It should be kept that way.

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  51. Well, as for Art and hanging objects on the walls I keep our walls mostly bare.
    I came to realize that after spending too much time cleaning; I decided to incorporate art a different way. I find simple carved out reusable pieces. I look for natural pieces that have carved out designs such as a table, chairs, my jars and vases. By using natural lighting each day my glass pieces show a different design.
    We enjoy going out to art museums and learning about art, while making new friends.
    This is still new to my family but we sure are enjoying it!
    Thank you again for your blog…we enjoy it!!

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  52. Seems to me that if someone wanted to learn to quilt, he/she could re-use old clothing, fabric scraps, etc. A library book on the subject could help out as well. From what I read, it sounds like Bea tries to find solutions rather than avoiding new activities altogether.

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  53. Kay: While I have a very different aesthetic, and want my children to feel able to be "messy", The decisions regarding the children are her and her husband's.
    What you might not be aware of is how they chose to use experiences over possessions. Living where they do, it is quite possible to have a [over]full life as a child of experiences!
    Going outside your home for "things to do" is an incredible gift to a child. You don't get comfortable with a set of toys or TV shows. It is a LOT more "work" but, as you end up moving, interacting, learning, it is incredibly enriching for the children *and* parents, and keeps the family bonds tight.

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  54. Again Bea, thanks for a timely column. I am in the process of painting my house for the first time in nearly twenty years, so everything must come down off the walls. You have given me much to consider when I choose color and again when it comes time to hang things back up. And as a teacher for over 2 decades I applaud your resolve to raise children who understand that things don't make you happy; not philosophically, but in a concrete way that will positively affect their whole lives. Bravo.

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  55. Bea, I see your point in sharing objects with others rather than owning them. I've come to realize that this includes works or art, including literature by using a library and visual art at museums and in public places. However, these public venues alone cannot sustain all the talents out there. How do they make a living? How do we foster these special people's talent and creativity?
    This is a very interesting discussion and my thinking has changed many times in a past few weeks since this topic has emerged in your blog. So, I thank you for that. I am just pondering this 'sustainable arts/fostering talents' bit now. What do you think?

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  56. "For example, I don’t buy new board games. I don’t believe in wasting my 20 to 40 dollars on a new game when I can buy the same game for a 1.99 at the second hand store. Especially, when I know it will only be played a few times."

    Then, why do you buy it? whatever the price is. I sincerely don't understand why you would buy something knowing it won't be used.

    My kids (8 and 10) don't have a ton of board games, but they love playing and spend several hours a week playing. "Don't buy stuff, do stuff." That's my husband's motto and I agree with him. If I buy something, then I commit myself to use it, especially if it means quality family time. IMHO if you don't allocate time using what you just bought, then the stuff has no value. It is what you do with it that is important for me.

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  57. @ Kay
    I don't think Bea is stifling creativity. She has come up with so many alternatives to daily living from things like grocery shopping to tampons! If she can come up with these alternatives that I thought were just a part of life I'm sure she can find waste-free alternatives to many creative projects.

    Also I think that she teaches her sons values and decision-making skills rather than limiting their activities (Bea correct me if I'm wrong) because on one interview she talked about how one of her sons wanted to keep a bracelet from a function that would most likely end up in the landfill. She let him make his own decision and in the end he kept the bracelet. You should look up the post about making a zero waste lunch to see how excited her kids are about zero waste.

    Bea, I'm not a parent but I think you are doing a terrific job! Don't let negative comments get you down.

    PS: Can someone tell me what IMHFO means? I'm not a huge internet user or texter.

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  58. While I still enjoy your blog and it's essence, I will have to take a 180 degree stance to yours on this subject. I am an artist. I come from a very bohemian family. My sister lives in a beautifully ornate caravan wagon and I live in a creaky old house that's decorated top-to-toe with found things, wonderous things, beautiful things that I never cease to love and be inspired by. I make the majority of my art from recycled/ found materials. I find the "the lighter the load, the easier the move" comment positively abhorrent. My house is like an anchor; a lighthouse for every free spirit in my family. Yes, we wander. But we always have this ancient house, this time-worn fort to come back to and collect ourselves, to steel ourselves against whatever comes our way. I know this doesn't jibe with the "live lightly" crowd, but it works for us and, while I'm now forgoing anything brand-new, I will forever be an anthropologist at heart, searching for meaningful clues when I enter someone else's living space.

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  59. To Ridley-
    My grandfather, whom I loved dearly, also made beautiful things out of wood. We had HUNDREDS of pieces that we didn't know what to do with. We kept our two favorites, let relatives pick a few and then donated the rest to a woodworkers association. They were very happy to archive the best selections and then sell or donate the rest. Hope this helps!

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  60. Caitlyn,
    IMHO usually means "in my honest/humble opinion".
    I totally agree with Bea about having white walls. One of the houses we lived in when I was still a child had completely white walls. It did help with lighting and we ended up not putting anything up because the walls looked fine just as they were.
    I also don't put up any Art. My daughters lessons on the walls are enough for me.

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  61. To Bohemian Anonymous...what a wonderful comment. You feel secure enough in your choice of decor to not feel the need to criticize those who choose differently. Thank-you.

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  62. Also To Bohemian Anonymous - Thank you for putting my own thoughts into the perfect words I could not find!

    I too am an artist and I believe that there are many ways to live a green and non-wasteful life, not simply the spartan way. Just because I have things in my home does not mean that I have an unhealthy attachment to them. One day I will have my own "anchor" in the form of a tiny cabin tucked into a corner of my hometown. It's walls will be strewn with pots and pans, chairs will be stacked with heavy blankets and canned homegrown vegetables will clutter my pantry. Is this not another legitimate way to live green? I do love this blog but I wish we could sometimes see other (perhaps cozier?) approaches to zero waste living.

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  63. Natalie said…..

    From my comment "For example, I don’t buy new board games. I don’t believe in wasting my 20 to 40 dollars on a new game when I can buy the same game for a 1.99 at the second hand store. Especially, when I know it will only be played a few times."

    **Then, why do you buy it? whatever the price is. I sincerely don't understand why you would buy something knowing it won't be used.

    **if you don't allocate time using what you just bought, then the stuff has no value.

    Your responses[**] were great…never thought about it like that…thank you for the pointers!

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  64. Art is like water - necessary for life, but it also reaches it's own level. For some, a perfect painting fills that artistic need. For others, a perfectly painted wall speaks volumes. If a simpler life is my excuse for moving out art which no longer speaks to me, I'll grab it. If the art speaks to me, it's already found it's place and does not qualify as clutter. Great post, Bea. Thought-provoking. Thank you.

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  65. Hello everyone - This is Scott (husband of Bea) - The end of school year activities have Bea pretty buried right now...so I will pitch hit.

    Looks like a great conversation - so just a couple more comments from me:

    Kay - I appreciate your concern with her "consumer anorexia" - but I want to let you know that we really do not have too much to fear. For example, last night Max went to a friends house and then on to a boy scout meeting. Now he wants to be scout - and we are thrilled!!! (and as an ex-Scout, we know how many how many arts & craft, collections, patches, maybe quilting?, etc. that will involve). I would be more worried about the poor scout master that will have to deal with Bea and her ideas :)

    Remember, Bea is only sharing what we do and works for us. She understands that others will find a different path towards zero waste - and that others should find their own balance and design aesthetic that makes them happy.

    To all, a nice weekend!

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  66. Thanks, Scott, for pitch hitting. It's always nice to hear from all the members of the family.
    I bet Max & Bea will eco-rock the local troop!
    Keep up the good work, all! Merci!

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  67. Love your white walls; they are visually restful and allow thinking. Ours were always monochrome with one smashing view or piece of artwork. The Japanese have an interesting take on this, the takonama: a decorative niche which houses one beautiful object to contemplate, such as a vase with a single branch in it.


    Am always surprised to see negative comments: you are not commanding others to live as you do but are sharing your journey and what you have learned. Keep it up!


    Your blog has helped my thinking. Recently a daughter with husband and two babies had to move in with us for an extended period. I was able to reconfigure my space to accommodate them in 15 minutes.

    The logic of your selections grows more apparent to me–for instance, I find I only need three pair of pants if they are the right pairs and fit properly. Now that I have found them, all is well. Had already arrived at 'less is more' with most of my possessions, but am continuing to refine and purge.


    It was helpful to learn that your choice of decorative scheme was determined not so much by the need to make a particular style statement, but by what was available used.


    Thank you for sharing your life so transparently.

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  68. Couple of possibly helpful things to note:

    1. Latest treehugger.com mailing shows a water collection system that can turn into a green wall, like Bea's plant wall.

    2. Not all libraries are created equal, of course. www.gutenberg.org is one of my favorite sites where one can read or download and/or print literature which is out of copyright. Look there for many of the great classics. We used to live in an area with fabulous libraries which we used heavily; for the last nine years we have been in the land of library drought. Online sources are grand.

    Enjoy the blog; thanks.

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  69. i find that an environment, any environment gives us its feel from its totality...not the walls alone, or the floor, the decor, furniture or the random stuff of life that may be lying around, but ALL of it.

    Your home, for example, is quite a space. I love its walls because they are significant in creating the feel of the Johnson home. In my home, white walls would just be out of place. The spirit of the environment is simply not one of white, and so the walls must obey.

    Best,
    Stephanie
    mywastelesslife.blogspot.com

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  70. i love the objects i keep in my home -- beautiful rocks, fossils, photos of my children, parents, great-great-grandparents. for me, having tangible connections to the past, both family and deep, deep geologic past is what i love and helps me feel centered. art on the walls is very few and far between, but the photos i have hanging up i look at every day, and am constantly discovering something new in them. my home is a palimpsest of my experiences and the different stages of my life and growth as a person. it's also a place where i can retreat to, and a place that inspires me to grow. it serves as a reminder of where i've been and conduit for where i have yet to go.

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  71. art is in the eye of the beholder, as is clutter.

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  72. Bea is raising questions that we should all be asking ourselves. It may unsettle us, but if we are truly concerned with the future of our families, communities & the future of our environment, we need to ask ourselves some fundamental questions about our existence & our consumption.

    All though everyone has their own tastes (& I don't think Bea is telling anyone how to decorate) I think this blog raises a valid point in that living with less- art included- future generations will grow up understanding that we do not need & cannot consume so much. Two thirds of the worlds resources have been used up already & the United States consumes 30% of the worlds resources, yet is home to only 5% of the worlds population.

    I believe art has an important role to play in society, but artists and those who consume their work (yes consume) have a responsibility to society and the environment too.

    Change is not always easy, but we need to seriously rethink our 'needs.' Bea & her family's environmental crusade is focused on the most important place- our homes. If we cannot implement such fundamental changes in our homes how are we going to in our wider communities, our work paces & in pressuring corporations & government to make changes also?

    For those of you who haven't been reading this blog for a long time, you might not realize that Bea is an artist- & I would be very interested to hear Bea how your zero waste journey has made you rethink and/or influence your art.

    I have been reading your blog since the NYTimes article, but this is the first time I have commented. I want to say thank you for all that you do- it is not easy, but it is so important.

    Merci beaucoup

    Sarah NZ

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  73. I was telling my aunt, a missionary to Pakistan for almost 30 years, about your blog. She commented on the excessive use of packaging there is in the United States and how that where she lives EVERY piece of 'garbage' is used by someone else. Even if she throws out an old pair of underwear, someone will dig it out of the trash to use! Maybe we can't all live like you, Bea . . . but thank you for doing your part to help us be more respectful and appreciative of our surroundings and what we are given. Fruititious excessiveness is a disease in our culture.

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  74. There are already plenty of comments which have covered all of the bases, but I'll throw my two cents in anyway. I'm not a huge lover of art, but I have three framed photographs of my children that are absolutely "spot on" reflections of a time, emotion, or personality trait that I treasure. Every once in a while the photos catch my eye, and I stare at them, taking a moment to immerse myself in the moments they represent. So, those are keepers in my eyes. The picture of the tree on my mantel piece -- well, let's just say it's better to look at than my mantel. I'm sure it will eventually go.

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  75. I dont think that the comments have been negative. What irritates me somewhat are commenters who try to muzzle or gag opinions that are not their own by condemning them as "rude" Bea is a grown-up and the topics she puts forth and invites comments on are emotive and she should expect the full range of thought. Swearing and personal attacks are not nice but I dont see any here.
    We dont have to have everyone live like we do to validate our lives but neither do we need commenters jumping in to defend Bea and her life style against contrary opinions - we are not in the school yard now.

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  76. Lizzie, well said!

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  77. I agree with lizzie! Bea asked for people's thoughts and even mentioned that not everyone would agree with her. She is asking for discussion. If everyone concurs, it makes for a boring read. As to Kay, I lean toward your point of view regarding minimalism, but I totally disagree that Bea's philosophy is harming her kids in any way.

    Bea, I'm a big fan. I applaud your efforts towards promoting Zero Waste and environmentalism. I love the look of your house and how happy and well adjusted your family appears. That said, I'm sorry but I just don't agree that minimalism and getting rid of every non-functional item in the house is a requirement for living a Zero Waste lifestyle. It's a beautiful aesthetic to be sure, but it's not for everyone. When you say that people have to give up their hobbies, their collections, their beloved heirlooms just to get started in being Zero Waste, you turn off most people. Your goal is too worthy, important, and urgent to limit yourself to the few fringe people that agree with your minimalism.

    One thing that I think really inspires people about you and your lifestyle is that you make it look chic, elegant, and stylish. You are able to live (nearly) Zero Waste without looking like a hippie. I think most people want to do more for the environment but don't want to appear too "out there". Think of the difference you could make if you were able to reach more people. If everyone in the US gave up one plastic bag it would make so much more of a difference than if a small group of people gave up everything.

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  78. The art I have chosen for my walls has special meaning for me or my loved ones. I'm not a person who purchases "trendy" art. But I do agree that over time, one can begin to ignore what is on the walls. One idea that I am going to use is to put some pieces away in my grandmother's chest. I think that I will rotate pieces throughout the year, maybe seasonally, so we have something "new" on the walls from time to time and less on our walls all the time. If I'm not inclined to rotate some to my walls within the year, then I will gift them to others who can use them.

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  79. @ Lizzie. I really do not think that gagging other's opinions is a good thing and I don't think disagreeing with Bea is necessarily rude. I agree that there needs to be a good discussion. You said "Swearing and personal attacks are not nice but I dont see any here." I would say that Kay saying she is a bad parent is a personal attack. That was what I was most sad to see on this thread. Also IMHFO is an acronym with a swear word in it... That was also surprising for me. I'm not bothered with hearing others' opinions. I can see both sides of the argument. I just don't like it when it gets mean.

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  80. Bea,
    I think what you are doing is quite special and you demonstrate that it not only is possible to change but doing so leads to a more fulfilling life. As for art...I have found that the pieces of art that are most meaningful are ones that are made within the family. For people that must have art I recommend choosing one genre (ie oil, silk screen, etc) and making one simple piece here and there. I took a few photo classes and learned the program Photoshop. I take nature photos (which never really go out of style) and have one printed on canvas for Christmas each year. Other photos can go in a digital photo frame for display.
    As for your zero waste lifestyle...I love it but I'm finding it quite a personal challenge. I live in Central Wisconsin and that makes zero waste shopping challenging(I do get grains and PB from the Co-op in bulk but they don't offer much else). Also my husband is not as willing to endure as yours has...my husband told me cloth napkins were extreme!!!! I sneak in tiny changes - one or two a week to avoid a full-scale revolt. But worst of all is my job. While I love what I do, it shocks me the amount of waste is generated in the medical fields! Recently our OR just changed from a sterilizing system to an all-disposable system because it will save us three-quarters of a million dollars. The towels may be from recycled materials and they may be biodegradable but they're going straight to a landfill where they will do no one any good. It is hard to hear my lowly voice when it costs almost a million dollars more.

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  81. @Kay
    While I do see where you may be coming from I disagree that "consumer anorexia" is applicable here. Bea buys what is necessary (and even a few things that she just plain wants!) to have a happy, healthy home. Doesn't "anorexia" imply that she's not getting everything she needs? Perhaps it's not that she is an anorexic consumer as much as many people are the over-eaters of the consumption world (as many people also are in terms of eating).

    I also disagree (surprise!) with your questioning whether she's allowing her sons to be creative. With limited TV and video game exposure I'd venture to say that they are required to be much more creative than the average child, and being creative in nature is one of the best ways to grow! I would also guess that if one of her sons showed an interest in painting, for instance, that she would find a zero waste way to accommodate him.

    I am not saying that they're without fault (they're human!), but I have yet to read anything on this blog that could be misconstrued as bad parenting. I'm not even beyond giving them a little creative criticism myself. On that note:

    @Scott!
    It's "pinch hit"! As in "in a pinch", but I can see where the confusion comes in because they often relieve a pitcher from hitting (in the National League anyway). GO GIANTS!

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  82. Thank you so much for your thoughtful writing Bea, I am an artist who has been struggling with issues of making more things that fill up the world for a few years now - not too much of an issue if one is a purely conceptual artist, but as painter it can hinder production haha!

    Most of the work in my masters thesis became about the process of letting go - of how we treat others, the world, and how we move in the world is indeed as much an art form as are more tangible forms of expression.

    I think it is important for us all to "curate" our world, especially in this time of too-much, too-fast.

    ~Kelly

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